by Neeshee » Thu Aug 02, 2012 7:40 pm
I recently read Michael's article on teaching the bird to step up, and also how to hold a parrot. This was very informative. I've recently acquired a trained female Eclectus parrot. She knows how to step up, and when we visited her to see if we wanted her, she even stepped up on us even though we were strangers. She is quite friendly and sociable, she loves to take showers with us, and seems to enjoy being handled, and being around us. But, she can be quite moody or uncooperative with stepping up, sometimes. In general, I notice she is less hesitant to step up on my wife, as she steps up almost always and very quickly. With me, its a game of chance. Usually, when I approach her (deliberately, slowly, and while speaking softly to her), she will start to move away on her perch. Then if I move closer to where she was, she walks away even further. For a while, I took this as a sign that she just doesn't want to step up, and so respected her communication, and left. Often, I would try later, and she would step right up.
But, of course, there are those times when a parrot owner needs the bird to step up for various reasons. When she doesn't step up on me and becomes uncooperative, I nudge her belly, and if she still doesn't budge, then I push gently until she is off-balance and then ends up stepping up on me. Once she is on me, she seems quite happy, and I can't understand what all the fuss was about. I am clear about associating something positive with stepping up on me, so I usually sit and feed her for a while, or she ends up going into the shower with me, but most of the time, stepping up on me = food, as one of our favorite activities together is eating! Today, I had to nudge her off balance again to get her to step up on me, and I just want to make sure I am not creating a negative experience, or negative view of myself to her by having to do this. If she walks away on her perch, should I still pursue handling her, or should I go back to my original approach or just walking away at that point? I just don't know if I am forcing myself on her and it is going to become something negative for her, or if this is good training.