This is a hot topic in Holland and I was wondering how 'you Americans' look at this. I will address what the norm and the issue is here in Holland and let you respond to that.
Small parakeets like budgies, cockatiels and the like are usually raised by their parents. The breeder will take the birds out every now and then to check whether they are healthy and put the legbands on, but thats it. When they leave the nest they will stay for up to two weeks with their parents and then move to a new home. These are the regular parentraised young you buy in petshops or from big breeders. Shy and easily spooked, having had very little human interaction.
Hobby breeders, like me, take the babies out every day to cuddle and get used to people. When they leave the nest they will also stay up to two weeks with the parents but are taken indoors for a couple of hours a day to get used to the houshold. After that they will move to a cage in our livingroom to make sure they can fend for themselves and for a bit more basic training, like step up.
On occasion the need is there to handfeed babies. This is almost never done with budgies, but on a regular basis with tiels. This is not the norm however.
People who have never had birds, or dont know much about them, keep looking for handraised birds. The idea is that handraised birds are much more affectionate and tame than parentraised birds. From my own experience I can tell you that the way we raise them they are just as tame. The only difference is that the parentraised birds have a much more solid upbringing by their parents. They know how to be a bird and interact with other birds. This can prevent a lot of problembehavior in pet birds.
I Also feel that the handraised birds bond so strongly to their owner that they 'forget' everything else. If you wish to introduce another bird, the handraised one will not immediately recognise it as one of its own. Whereas a parentraised one will know how to deal wit the newcomer.
I would like to know what the 'norm' is over there and how you deal with these issues. Is it a hot issue as well or is there a common idea everybody looks to?