by captwest » Tue Sep 28, 2010 9:31 pm
Well here we go , I'm going to put my 2cents worth in.You have a golden oppurtunity with a young YN, Please don't stress with teaching and traing at this early stage of ya'lls relationship, The imporant thing is to gain your birds trust and srt the tone for your future relationship.Don't smother a new bird , yes you want to teach it all this great stuff, BUT that;s what you want! Your bird wants to find her place in the world, if that place is with you then work at gaining her trust. you can clicker train a 60 yr old YN. If her world turns around you then teaching her tricks later is easy, she'd like nothing better than to please you if your the light of her life. Start slow, give her attention when she wants it But stop before she has to tell you that thats too much , i'm tired of doing what you want. if she wants pets great gut stop befor she wants you to. Trying to teach her all yhat you want her to do at this point will make her resent you later when you can't or won't spend as much time with her. Do you want to be "THE MAN" in her life? Learn how to preen , not pet or sratch , but preen , like her mate would do, It's selfless giving, it's not something you do because it's cute or whatever , it's you fixing her feathers that she can't reach, like your wife or husband would do because they care. Yes start training early but talking you can do from the other room , youi don't have to be in her face, Free fighted sure, but it's much easier with a bird who wants to be with you for more reasons than a treat.Ther're lots of people on here who know a lot more than I about training birds, but trust me, work on your relationship first if having a lifelong compaion is what's important, AND YES she needs to learn to step up to come out of the cage and go back in , later in life it's not that big of a deal but at this early stage it is. I'll shut up now,Richard