Nir wrote:when i mean okay with a lot of people, i just mean they will be willing to step up at the very least. they dont have to be handled anyway possible like i would be able to but stepping up to others and not killing them would be a nice start to work with lol. mango at this point will be okay with flying to someones shoulder or going near they if they have a toy but if the person doesnt move their hand from the toy or treat, they are going to get bit. and i socialized mango from day 1 everyday.
This is definetely not intended as being rude, but the problem probably lies in your training, and that you have inadvertantly done it wrong.
I realise that is tough to hear, but its very likely the truth. All birds can be socialized if done properly.
I have myself failed in socialising our birds for the last year, with the result of Stitch being frightened of other people than our family, and Leroy, while not being to fussed, doesnt like it either.
Niether bird will step up for anyone else than me or my wife.
The good thing is, you can train Mango to step up for other people, just as I can with Stitch and Leroy. It does take a lot of work, and you need other people to actually WANT to help you with the training as well. YOU cant teach Mango to step up for others, he needs to practice it with others, and they need to reward it. Michael has excellent guides on this, it might be on his blog or in a thread (I think its in the Senegal one person aggression-thread).