Kathleen wrote:Working with a bird using positive reinforcement techniques only encourages the behavior you want. You can never completely eliminate behavior by punishing this bird. Instead, it will just become afraid of you. I have no idea what "traumatizing" entails but that is a strong word and so I can only use my imagination.
You can't just "have" it behave properly so your father doesn't get mad. You can control some of the things the bird wants and reward the bird in exchange for doing what you want it to do, and I think with a little patience the situation might improve. But you can't control this bird.
I know this. My dad knows this. The only difference is that he doesn't believe it. This is essentially why it is so difficult. Unlike my brother and I, he's so pretentious and close-minded when it comes to this matter.
My dad did buy the bird himself.
I was hoping to find someone to dialogue with so my dad can learn from what is said. I don't think (relatively) anonymous internet forums will be very convincing, though I do really appreciate the overwhelming willingness to help.