Hello,
In looking for information on my bird's recent decision to bite me, I came across this line of posts. The information has been really helpful, especially about finding a method that works best and stick with it. Earthquakes are fun for him - he actually laughs and flaps. "No!" seems to trigger behavior from his previous home where he was neglected and abused. Silent tears and plopping him back down on his perch seems to have the best effect - he HATES being ignored.
But the crux of my question is "why?" I have never had a bird before, had this male Amazon pretty much dumped on me, and I have come to love him to death. I've tried to educate myself as best that I can, but I know there are things that you just don't get except through experience.
He has pair bonded with me, and even my vet said that he is VERY bonded to me. Clipped and knows "no flying" as a command. We have traveled together, go shopping together, lots of car rides, frequently shouldered (a "no," I know), and extremely affectionate during the Spring - just wanted to feed me regurgitation and try to mate with my face. I handled that with tactful declinations, distraction, then redirection. He's been living with me 1.5ys and lived in my office 6mos prior to that because he was too hard to handle and pretty mean. He's had the full exam and came back "in excellent health." Primarily a pelleted diet, with fruits, nuts, veggies, and sometimes meat.
The issue now is that he will literally bait me to bite me - he will beg for me to to come get him, eagerly step up, then bite the snot out of me. He's even lunged at my face from my shoulder a few times this past month, but backs down quickly when I pull my head back and give low and firm "don't even." It "feels" like we're in a power struggle. Is that possible? I know that they have earned a reputation of hard-headedness, but would he really be trying to put me in what he thinks is my place? Thoughts, recommendations, experiences?
Thanks much.