liz wrote:I went back in your postings. You have had Ollie longer and he is a cudler. Stan is more recent and he is the learner but not social.
You have two kids with different personalities that's all. Just because they are together doesn't mean they are going to be the same. Ollie is just more needy than Stan who is more independant.
I think you may be right. Hopefully Stan will just get a little more social with age>