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Freddie is indeed a Green Cheeked Amazon. I'm sorry to hear about his nail problem, and I hope all goes well for him. As for tips to get him to cozy up to you and your family, its going to take some time. Make a daily routine, and set aside time specifically for Freddie, at least ten minutes. During these times, have a conversation with him, not repeating words too much. And when your around his cage and your doing something, tell him what it is your doing, and explain it to him. They love this kind of interaction. When your eating something, show him what it is, and leave some of it (if its not a no-no for birds) in his cage or food dish. Wait a few days before you put any toys into his cage, and give him time to adjust in his new home. Everyone in the house hold should pay attention to him, and if he acts nervous, just give him a lil space.
Also make sure you always keep him a happy bird. Get some fresh fruit and veggies in the morning, as most birds in the wild like to forage, and just a seed diet is unhealthy. Do NOT let him eat any of the following,
-Avocado,
* Alcohol – There are several known cases of accidental consumption. Alcohol can depress a bird’s organ system and cause death.
* Avocado – The skin and pit of this fruit have been known to cause cardiac distress and heart failure.
* Caffeine – Coffee beans, coffee grounds, tea and soda. The effects of caffeine can cause cardiac distress, hyperactivity and possible cardiac arrest.
* Chocolate – Chocolate will induce vomiting and diarrhea in a bird, but more importantly, it will affect the central nervous system and eventually cause death.
* Dried beans – Uncooked beans can be a choking hazard but they also contain a toxin called hemaglutin.
* Fruit seeds – The seeds from apples, cherries, peaches, apricots and pears can contain trace amounts of cyanide.
* Mushrooms – Mushrooms are a type of fungus and can cause digestive upset and even liver failure.
* Onions, garlic and chives – Very small amounts are ok, but excessive consumption can cause vomiting, diarrhea and other digestive problems.
* Salt – Too much sodium can eventually result in death due to dehydration and liver malfunction.
* Tomato Leaves – Stems, leaves and vines of the tomato plant.
But other than that just make him feel like he is a part of the family, and eventually he will learn that YOU are his flock. Always give him time out of the cage, and when you do put toys in, switch them around every now and again so it doesn't get boring for him.
And if you want to get him to talk more, and want to teach him some words, say it with enthusiasm. Make it something fun for him, so he will want to do it as well. This is the key to any trick at all, verbal or physical.
I hope any of this will help you, and if you have any other questions, feel free to ask
Its going to be an adventure for you and your family, as your first bird is an amazon. They make wonderful pets, and if you get bit, don't be mad at the bird. You have to pay attention to his body reactions and especially his eyes. Birds are just like people, and they all have their bad days. You will most likely get bit from time to time, so do not take it personally.